I’ve been married four years now, but I have dated my husband since 1998. Thirteen years. Wowzers. So, in honor of being married a whopping 4 years. Here are my 4 tips on marriage. From me, the expert, of course. ;)

1. It is never 50/50. Things aren’t always even.

2. If something is bothering you – speak up. Otherwise, you’re bound to blow up over someone taking the last of the coffee or something just as ridiculous.

3. Date. Plan some time together. Even if it is just watching a movie together in the living room after the kid is asleep. Or making breakfast together on the weekend or going to grab a quick/non-fancy dinner. Plus, you got married because you like spending time together. Right?

4. Acknowledge when you’re being ridiculous and find the humor in it. We’ve all done it. Personally, I think laughing together is crucial. And you might as well make fun of each other - you got a lot of years together left together…